tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9000861891157704972.post3834299461630353874..comments2023-10-28T05:18:13.457-07:00Comments on Trials in the Life of a Chasidisher Yingerman: Shiduchimyingermanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16787924550392617269noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9000861891157704972.post-42161993194735058682007-03-07T21:14:00.000-08:002007-03-07T21:14:00.000-08:00Shiduchim?! thats a whole 'nother planet in itself...Shiduchim?! thats a whole 'nother planet in itself. Touchy subject though. Great post! (funny too)<BR/>Good luck with those shiduchim!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9000861891157704972.post-2247922502226291442007-03-07T17:50:00.000-08:002007-03-07T17:50:00.000-08:00Sometimes, parents say no just because of a "feeli...Sometimes, parents say no just because of a "feeling", and having been the shaddchan by a few shidduchim, I can tell you that it's never a good idea to push a shidduch because you never know what you're pushing for. Sometimes, instinct is put there because it's not bashert, and now always is it explainable.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9000861891157704972.post-73923017979823490842007-03-07T17:17:00.000-08:002007-03-07T17:17:00.000-08:00don't get me started on this shidduch crisis. I t...don't get me started on this shidduch crisis. I think that the whole setup is nothing more then a meat market where shidduchim are made based more on money, status and yichis than the bucher or girl's best interest. it stinks.<BR/><BR/>which is why we have so many young married yingerleit looking for sex or <B><I>meaningful</B></I> relationships since they don't have it in their own marriages.<BR/><BR/>it is unfortunate that kids that don't yet know that this isn't what they want (or lack the courage to do anything about it) end up inflicting the same thing on their own children 20 years later.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9000861891157704972.post-20578334995142467702007-03-07T13:01:00.000-08:002007-03-07T13:01:00.000-08:00Just suggesting a shidduch to someone brings them ...Just suggesting a shidduch to someone brings them one closer to the right one. I don't have to tell you how important it is. It's great you are trying.socialworker/frustrated momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10352262399235382201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9000861891157704972.post-7985227836292056292007-03-07T12:32:00.000-08:002007-03-07T12:32:00.000-08:00YUP!!!!Nu so?Get going!YUP!!!!<BR/>Nu so?<BR/>Get going!yingermanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16787924550392617269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9000861891157704972.post-87345268915019032592007-03-07T09:20:00.000-08:002007-03-07T09:20:00.000-08:00oy oy shiduchim.. there is a major crisis in shidu...oy oy shiduchim.. there is a major crisis in shiduchim that doesnt get enogh attention, there arent enough shadchonim, and those who are out there try to get the big fish only, the big rebbes, richies, where they can make big money, so even for the 18-20 year olds in the chsidish kreizen where this is THE age, there isnt enough done.<BR/>and at an even larger scale of that is tha lack of shadchonim for the older boys and girls, its mamesh a broch, so much has been written said and talked but very little has been done<BR/>u r right that the parents need to be educated too, there needs to be found an organization like the many chesed organizations out there who help out different situations, we need a shduch crisis reveltion to train shadchonim, create a int'l data base, and organize seminars for parnts<BR/>u got work to do, get goingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com